Saturday, May 22, 2010

Dad's Grad

After many years and much toiling, Jeff was able to walk in this year's Salt Lake Community College Commencement Ceremony for his Associate's in Criminal Justice. He has been accepted to Weber State's Criminal Justice program (one of the best in the country,) and will begin his Bachelor's there in the Fall. People often ask me (and I think him) "isn't he already a cop?" or "he doesn't need a degree for that, does he?" (For the moment, let's just put aside the fact that I think this is a gutsy and frankly, rude, sentiment.) When it boils right down to it, no, Jeff does not need a degree. We have been so blessed that he has already been working in his chosen field for a few years now, and that it amply supports the needs of our little family. Would it be easier for us if Jeff were not in school? Certainly. Would we have more time together if he didn't have homework? Without a doubt. Would it be more budget-friendly? Absolutely! Do I wish he wouldn't do it? Never for a second. Jeff loves what he does, and plans on doing it for a long time, but he is always looking ahead and planning for the future of our family. At the SLC PD, they have 20 year retirement, which means Jeff could be signing of from there when he's only 44. He knows he may do something else, or may stay longer, but he also knows he may not. He has been thinking ahead to that time and wants to allow for the possibility of one day teaching criminal justice at a college or university. I love this about Jeff. He is always thinking about us, always trying to give us everything that we need and want and to make life for us the best he can. He also wants to set the example for our children. Whether or not he decides to do those things 20 years down the road, he has and will have accomplished so much, and helped teach our children that education, responsibility and betterment are important to us in our family. I am so proud of him for being prepared, ambitious, persevering, and thoughtful.

Jeff's walking down the ramp.

Her usual important-event behavior.

Getting to play with TWO grandma's at once, alright! No shortage of snacks or toys here!

Looking stoic with Papa.

While we were waiting outside the arena, Amie and this girl played ring around the rosie. So cute!

New best friends.

He even earned his honor cords, great job, babe!


Our little fam.


Jeff's free banana pie from Braza Grill, where we celebrated afterward. What a steal, right? (I mean, can you even see that speck?)

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